Sleazy Demure

25th May 2012 | 3 notes

Another bit from the LM interview:

JJ: Is there a song that will definitely be on the album?

LM: There are a few. There’s one called “Entitled”. That’s a perfect representation of what the whole album is about. It’s about the heartache and sadness and you know all of those feelings that come along with being in love helplessly, then moving on and knowing that you’re better and entitled to something more. That was sort of the before and after of just me as a person to be honest.

Is it just me, or does it sound a bit like Leighton is trying to counter-argue the message of her character on GG w/ her music?

And I think the Dair tag is being wonky again. Boo :/

25th May 2012 | 21 notes

jadeoliviagordon24:

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I love TF more than anyone but idk why he looks like such a douche here

25th May 2012 | 40 notes

Oh, earth, you're too wonderful.: Pretentious stuff or An Ode to Dan Humphrey

merrywandererofthenight:

I’ve been trying to understand how a room full of writers could possibly choose a “Chuck” over a “Dan” (quotes bc there are many Chucks and Dans in this world) for their obvious favorite female character. Blair has basically become the protagonist (though one could easily argue Dan after the…

Beautiful, especially the whole thing.

25th May 2012 | 25,906 notes

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25th May 2012 | 150 notes

marigoldsky:

Things the GG Writers can’t take away from me: The 7 perfect Dair arc episodes

Awww. There is such a delicate tenderness in the way they look at each other. Penn and Leighton are so good.

25th May 2012

dairingoriental asked: Honestly, don't bother replying to Chair fans. It's time-consuming and pointless. I have done it countless times but in the end, they only hear what they want to hear.

Yeah, I’m at that point myself. Unfortunately I’m the type of person that can’t resist giving a rebuttal, so at this point I may just have to turn off anon asks for awhile.

25th May 2012

Anonymous asked: "you aren't the type of people who put morality in very high regard"? who the fuck do you think you are? you don't know every one of us so you're not exactly qualified to make that assessment are you? just like dan, you guys lump everyone together and judge them! get over yourself. I was abused as a child if I thought GG glamorized abuse, I would not watch it and I don't know why anyone else would. but I also spend time on real causes and real people, not fictional characters like some people.

I am sorry you were abused as a child, anon, no one deserves that. *hugs*

But look at it this way: a lot of people who have been abused DO feel like this show has triggered them. A lot of people who were/are abused are disheartened by this relationship being portrayed as epic even though it triggers them. So why shouldn’t we care that so many people DO feel this relationship is abusive, and that that really hurts them? I have had anons message me telling me just the opposite; that this show is triggering and they have had to stop watching it, and are saddened that this relationship is being portrayed as epic love. I think it is great that it doesn’t trigger you, but you can’t speak for everyone, and I’m sorry, but as someone who has survived abuse, you should think about that. I was in an abusive relationship, and you know what? This show triggers me. The things Blair says about Chuck send a chill down my spine and make my throat tight, because it is so … exactly what it is. I havent been constantly blogging about this for over a week because I just love GG that fucking much. I am a fan, but christ. I am fixated on this because it triggered the hell out of me. Think about how it would feel if you did find this relationship abusive, and it did trigger you, and there were a ton of fans yelling at you and telling you you are stupid or a liar or petty or whatever for feeling that way because they ship it.

I see Chair fans doing this all day, everyday. It is hard not to want to say they must not hold morality in very high regard. Of course I shouldn’t generalize that way (I was in a VERY bad mood — still no excuse and I am sorry to any Chairios that took offense to that) but … sometimes it is so baffling, that I just can’t.

I get it. People like Chuck and don’t like his character being bashed. But look, I don’t hate Chuck Bass. I really don’t. I just hate him with Blair. I think he is too damaged, and alone that is relatable, with her … it is not. He becomes the bad man, not the bad boy.

and ugh, I really hate to use such a buzzword as trigger, I honestly do, but there is honestly no other word for it in this case.

25th May 2012 | 1 note

Anonymous asked: honey if you guys cared about blair going back to her "abuser," where was this petition and shit after 5x10 when she was leaving louis for chuck while she was pregnant? why did none of you seem to care then? gg is fiction and if people aren't mature enough to recognize that maybe they shouldn't watch it.

lol this q again? you guys.

I already answered this long time ago bb.

25th May 2012 | 3 notes

ihavefoundmycenter:

“I won’t know until…I think I won’t know until after I shoot.”

Leighton Meester

That just confirms that she didn’t get the memo of the finale till it happened

THIS

If Leighton confirms that the EPs and Writers haven’t told her anything about Blair’s choice, do we really think they told Ausellio? No. Because obviously, they aren’t discussing Chair as endgame like the Chairios are trying to paint it out. (See my post to an anon about other things Savage said that could allude to Dair not being categorically over: http://sleazydemure.tumblr.com/post/23505849225/the-only-problem-with-your-dair-reunion-hypothesis-is )

I believe this interview was before the series finale was shot?? Not sure tbh buuuuut either way, they don’t tip their cards for a reason. It is their job to keep up the suspense. Leighton knows nothing until it shoots and we know nothing until it airs.

Fact: they have said NOTHING that rules our Dair.